Friday, June 12, 2009

I CHOOSE AUTHENTICITY



Today I have taken the pledge of authenticity. Realizing that I have a long way to go, I will work hard every day to be true to myself and to do what makes me really happy, regardless of what others may think is best for me. I will listen more attentively to my inner being and learn how to say "no" and not feel guilty about it. I will say "piss off" more often and feel good about it. I will dig in my heels when I feel I'm being pushed. I will try to be more honest about my feelings. I will strive to conquer my fears bit by bit and make more effort to step (or dance) outside my comfort zone. I know I am a work in progress, but I will get there, perhaps at a snails pace, but I will get there!

My next journey outside my comfort zone...I am seriously considering signing up for belly dance lessons.

4 comments:

  1. Mom, we are on the same wavelength. I've been thinking about this pledge of authenticity that I see in the blogosphere, and because of you I've decided to do it too. We can keep each honest!

    And I 100% support the belly dancing! It's really one of my favorite things to do. Maybe someday we can dance together.

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  2. Wish we could go together. I sent in my registration today so all I have to do now is show up. Now I have another excuse to go Frenchy shopping...maybe I will find something exotic to wear.

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  3. Hi! Just visiting via Bret's blog. You will have fun bellydancing. I went to classes a while ago and loved it. Your hair in that previous post looks great by the way!

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  4. ooh i love this post. i love what you said. i hope you don't mind if i copy that authenticity thing into a post of my own. it is something i've been working on most of my life, a very important thing to me. but it's definitely, as you said, a work in progress. it takes renewed commitment, sometimes daily. easy to slip back into old familiar and unhealthy patterns. thank you for this! :)

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